It is not Sarah Ruhl's fault that she is more successful than you. She did not award herself the MacArthur, nor has she behaved in any kind of egregiously shitty manner since winning it. All she's done is write some plays and have some babies.
I really honestly don't understand the hostility towards Sarah Ruhl at all. I can understand not digging her plays, they ain't for everybody. Hell, I don't love them all (although I do love Euridice) and there are some troublesome racial politics in two of them. But people seem to have a personal grudge against her simply for being successful. What gives?